I admit it. I watch Teen Mom. I’m sure the show is not complete reality for these girls, but I do think it provides a platform for discussing sex openly with teenagers. I am not yet to that point with my daughter, but I hope I’ll be able to be open and honest with her when she has questions. I would rather she ask me about sex instead of experimenting first and asking questions later.
I simultaneously admire and sympathize with the young mothers on that show. Raising a child when you’re in a stable relationship is hard enough. I can’t imagine how they are able to manage raising their children, going to school, dealing with parents/ex-boyfriends, and being young single mothers all at the same time.
Tuesday night’s episode was the season finale. It was a tear-jerker. Here’s a brief summary:
1. Farrah decides to move to Florida and is torn between taking her daughter Sophia with her or leaving Sophia with Grandma for two years while Farrah completes her Bachelor’s degree.
2. Amber’s no-contact order with her ex-boyfriend is lifted, but she can’t see him while their daughter Leah is around.
3. Maci and her son Bentley’s father, Ryan, can’t stop fighting and Maci wants to marry her current boyfriend Kyle, but he’s not ready. He makes an excellent point that they are both only 19 years old.
4. Catelyn and her boyfriend Tyler, who made the mature and extremely difficult decision to allow another couple to adopt their daughter, allow Tyler’s dad/Catelyn’s stepdad (same person) Butch to live with them while he is on parole and in rehab. Butch gets arrested again and Catelyn and Tyler decide it would be too emotional if their daughter and her adoptive parents attended the couple’s high school graduation ceremony.
Each of the young women featured face extremely difficult, potentially volatile, emotional situations and decisions. I don’t envy them.
The young women featured in this episode are strong, ambitious, scared and doing their best to be good mothers. Some of them have the support of their families while others are forced to forge their own paths as parents and adults. I admire their courage and tenacity. Regardless of their individual situations, each of the young women featured in this show keep pushing themselves to be better mothers, better people.
I know some people think the show makes the lives of these women look glamorous, but I think it provides a glimpse into their lives and some of the realities they face as young mothers. They don’t always make the best the choices, but they are trying, as all mothers do, to do their best.
I have seen first-hand the difficulties teen moms face, but I have also seen them persevere and overcome insurmountable obstacles to become strong, independent women who fiercely love their children. I doubt any of the teen moms featured on the show will read this post, but I hope they realize just how strong they are and that they have so much to look forward to. It’s hard work, but it’s worth it. I sincerely wish them well.
Do you watch Teen Mom? What do you think about this show? Why?